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  • More like a pride of lions bringing down an elephant, or maybe wolves on a bison.

    1v1 dragon slaying would still be more like a badger taking on a tiger.

    Player characters (as opposed to non d&d dragon slaying stories) aren’t usually as ill prepared as a cat is vs a human, and rarely “hunt” alone. PCs have better weapons than claws and teeth, and the ability to coordinate attacks reduces the advantage of size and power the dragon has more than the comparison between a cat and a standard, unarmed human.

    I do, however, love the idea presented :)


  • Back in the day, I was running a game with friends. They both decided to play precocious kids, with a lot of power (magical and family) but in need of extra guidance.

    So, they had a DMPC that was from Maine, and had the stereotypical accent like Fred Gwynne had in Pet Sematary. So he’s talking about systems of magic, gods and spirits in that Mainer drawl.

    We ended up playing pretty much every night for a month or two, and with me doing the accent so much, I had trouble shaking the accent irl.

    It was a great fucking campaign tbh. We had a shit ton of fun just rampaging around and wrecking shit with their pair of grossly wealthy and grossly over powered siblings and their “uncle”. The two kids were British, so those cheesy accents were in play, and they were from a posh witch family, which makes this post extra funny for me.








  • I mean, a six day temp ban for being a dick? That’s what mods are supposed to do, keep assholes from assholing more than the bare minimum. And that’s coming from an asshole that has, and probably will again, been banned temp and permanent for being an asshole.

    Like, once you start calling names, you’re off topic, and disrupting the community. You don’t need a warning, you don’t need the rules explained, because you didn’t care in the first place. If you had, you would have just blocked whatever asshole you were insulting and moved on.

    I get it, sometimes you just gotta slap back. It’s a human thing.

    But when you do, you need a cool down time. A week is just about right for most people to chill the fuck out and get over it. Some take less, some take longer, but a week is just about right.

    It’s one of those things where if you’re being a dick, you take your lumps and that’s that. You don’t go whining about the moderation.

    A mod lets shit slide like that ends up up with entire threads of bullshit to deal with, and all the other users that decided to jump in are now also fucking up the community spreading the drama. So, yeah, you got a temp ban. You should have. If it had been permanent, you’d have something to complain about on a first offense, though imo, it would be justified as well since we’re all supposed to be grown ass adults that shouldn’t need to be told to play nice. But complaining about it would be justified too.

    Now, if the other person was also being an asshole and didn’t get a temp ban, that’s bullshit.



  • Is there a reason you’re referring to yourself in the third person? Seems weird lol.

    But, dude, regardless of the ban being overkill or not, you did violate the rules as listed.

    Now, how much of that is on you vs being on the vague language of those rules is back to the ban being justified or not. The title change rule is vague as hell, and needs rewriting if they’re going to take issue with the degree of editing of the titles for clarity. But you did totally replace the title, no matter the reason for it, so some kind of mod action would be expected. A temp ban seems at the very extreme of appropriate, and even that only if it isn’t the first time you’ve done it, and the rule was clearly written.

    If I was to draft the same rule to reflect the application of it here, I would go with “title must match linked site’s title if a title exists, which may include clarification, but must follow the original title’s structure”.

    The way they wrote the rule encourages alterations to titles because it starts off directing posters that the post title must describe link content. As written, not drafting descriptive title is out of bounds, so people are going to assume exactly what you did, and come up with their own. Very badly written rule.

    The part about not copy/pasting though, you posted enough length that a mod would have to follow the link and read the article to know how much you copied. While it coins be debated whether or not that’s part of moderation when you have rules against copying entire articles, it’s also not unreasonable to not follow every linked post to see if that’s the case. Depends on the volume of posts that include long quoted sections as to whether or not that’s a reasonable expectation on the mods.

    That rule is well crafted and simple, but should be clarified if they’re going to apply actions to copied sections as well, if they’re above a certain length. You didn’t break the rule as they listed it.

    So, it’s kind of a fuck up on both ends, with the onus being on the mods for not having their rules as written indicate the way they’re going to apply them. You definitely changed the title far beyond what it should have been, but you seem to have done so in good faith based on a badly written rule


  • Well, it’s one of those things where you either learn to compartmentalize, or you quit fast.

    I moderated forums back in the early days of the internet. It was rough some days, to the point I had someone show up at my house because I wouldn’t let them abuse other users.

    I moderated on reddit, and it was both easier and worse. People like to complain, but automod being able to filter out so much of the worst without having to see it at all made the job bearable. If I’d had to wade through the bigotry, the worst slurs, and similar stuff that a well crafted automod rule could magic away, I wouldn’t have done it at all.

    But the fact that you have to constantly adjust the automod to catch up with the most persistent assholes is draining.

    And that’s not getting into the stuff that isn’t hate speech, misogyny, bigotry, and that kind of infection. People think they can say anything they want, any way they want, and you stopping them means you’re the asshole, even after that went on a rant about fucking someone’s wife and kids (seriously, that’s a ban I had to make) because someone didn’t agree with their opinion of a flashlight. Seriously, that fucking happened.

    Point being that while there are mods that go too far, the internet, and places like reddit or lemmy, would be unbearable without it. There has to be someone making those calls, keeping things from turning into the non stop scroll of venom and porn that used to be way too common back in the day.


  • Look, I get it. I read through this thread, and I get the point you’re making, absolutely.

    Always, always remember that we’re all human and prone to horrible errors of judgement. We don’t know the dude, we don’t know his story that led up to this.

    What you seem to be missing is that a past trauma is no more or less likely than a neutral or positive past. None of those excuse assault and battery. You can absolutely judge a person based on their actions. We do it all the time in jury trials. Him having had some kind of suffering related to Palestine or Hamas wouldn’t mean he wasn’t guilty of assault and battery, though it might mitigate things for sentencing.

    Would those UNICEF workers now be justified in going somewhere, screaming at some Israeli bank teller and head butting them? No. And I think you know that.

    I applaud your compassion. We should always consider such things in forming opinions. We also do not have to forego judgement because of that compassion.