I’ve always been a “lurker” on all platforms and communities because when I do have a question or would like to contribute my first thought has become:
Actually, let me google it first
In which case I’ll usually have some answer. Usually it isn’t a complete answer but enough for me to not want to share my question anymore.
Even with ready access to Google, I still try to ask questions about people’s beliefs/lifestyles/hobbies/etc. It’s a mixed bag with the responses I get. Some folks are very passionate and ready to explain the subject. Others just tell you to Google it. I obviously know I can Google it, but was hoping for human interaction with someone who clearly has an interest in the topic. Maybe some bonding, maybe some learning, maybe give that person a second to nerd out.
Then there’s me , too shy to ask UNTIL I google it so I can feign some sort of knowledge to not seem like a dunce haha
You’re not alone. I’m guilty as well lol.