• almar_quigley@lemmy.world
    69·
    1 year ago

    I’m so happy to see a sane comment at the top here. So many of these are just stupid and border on alpha male don’t take not shit or admit fault crap.

    • mars@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      17·
      1 year ago

      I think it goes the other way too. For people that tend to apologize too much, even when it’s not their fault, mixing in a “thanks for your patience” is a good way to balance it out a bit.

      • theneverfox@pawb.socialEnglish
        14·
        1 year ago

        I’m torn. I feel like admitting guilt and owning up to your failures is a virtue, but I’m not sure the rest of the world agrees with me

        Neurotypical enough to read body language, neurodivergent enough to never understand why

        • almar_quigley@lemmy.world
          4·
          1 year ago

          I’m with you. Just being honest about a failure is fine. Doesn’t have to be a dramatic apology, just an acknowledgment with a bit of regret perhaps.

      • almar_quigley@lemmy.world
        4·
        1 year ago

        That makes sense. I think that’s a different issue than I was thinking. Ultimately if it’s a sincere comment I think that’s the most important thing.