Hi,

I don’t want to see girls with low esteem and no dignity/self worth posting nudes and seeking attention like they’re stuck in their teenage phase of constant attention seeking. How do I block this crap and everything related to porn?

Thanks in advance.

  • Techviator@infosec.pub
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    1 year ago

    How do I block judgemental assholes?

    Hi,

    I don’t want to see assholes with low IQ who cannot be bothered to look at the settings and documentation of the apps and websites they use and who’ll judge others based on his own preconceptions and biases.

    – People choose to share nudes or go into porn for a very wide variety of reasons, and you should not be assuming anything about their self-esteem, dignity or self-worth, because you don’t know them or anything about them other than they chose a different lifestyle than yours.

    It’s ok to not want to see it, you can turn it off in the setting or block the user/instance/domain that may be not properly tagging their adult content, but it is absolutely not ok to judge other users and insult them publicly just because you don’t like their lifestyle.

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      – People choose to share nudes or go into porn for a very wide variety of reasons, and you should not be assuming anything about their self-esteem, dignity or self-worth, because you don’t know them or anything about them other than they chose a different lifestyle than yours.

      I have an entire friend group that shares nudes like it’s selfies because for us it’s just body parts like any other and we can admire the beauty of the human body. No feelings of vice or dirtiness involved whatsoever. I can go around seeing naked people and just appreciate the beauty without feeling dirty or even thinking about sexual intercourse and look respectfully. I feel comfortable being naked around my friends, I’ve been around friends literally hooking up next to me, it’s no big deal at all. I’m cute you’re cute, do you wanna sword fight? I’ll happily talk about my sexual life (within respect of privacy of course). I’ll talk you through your kitty issues and not think any differently. It’s healthy in my opinion.

      IMO healthy porn exists, there’s a whole world between anti porn and hardcore fetish porn. I see nothing wrong with a casual pair of boobies or a dick.

      Some people are indoctrinated by religion to feel like their body is dirty and needs to be hidden away, and feel shame to even think about sex or feel sexually stimulated by anyone but their spouse, and that’s okay if that’s their choice. And for some people it’s just normal life stuff. I personally think religion is harmful and worthless but I don’t go around calling people practicing it low life sheeps with no self worth or sexually frustrated closeted perverts.

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    Also forgot to say, READ THE RULES ON THE SIDEBAR, this is not a support community, your post breaks the rules. If you have future questions regarding the site post them in any of the appropriate communities, this one is for open ended questions in a similar way to r/AskReddit

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    1 year ago

    half the porn on this site is furries and gay men, yet OP only thinks the girls have no self-worth/dignity and are stuck in teenage attention seeking 🧐 in addition to having scrambled dick for brains, OP is sexist

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      Same with Mastodon. It’s hilarious how when there’s no algorithm to push content to you, it’s mostly furries and gay porn that show up. lol

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    I feel that you can phrase this better champ. Not all girls that do that have low self esteem nor seeking attention.

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    In the Lemmy web interface, there’s a setting to turn off all NSFW-flagged posts.

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        1 year ago

        Another solution if you don’t want to turn them off completely is either to:

        • Join an instance that has lemmynsfw and its alternatives blocked.

        Or

        • Block them yourself, I don’t know how to do this on browser but if you use this site on mobile, the app “connect for lemmee” has an option to block all comments and posts from people of any instance you choose, which is a lot more effective than blocking communities separately.
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    1 year ago

    This is a support question related to how to use Lemmy. Please see the sidebar for communities which offer support.

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    OP, not only are you a sexist moron, but you have proven to also be a humble idiot aware of his mistakes.

    I have no issues seeing porn on here because I don’t have the maturity of a child like you do, and I hope one day you will grow up and not allow a harmless nipple to set you off.

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      you are right. and I’m working on it. I should have rephrased this a lot better.

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        I was about to comment calling you an asshole but I didn’t expect this tbh. I appreciate you listening and understanding your errors, people don’t do this often enough.

  • ᴇᴍᴘᴇʀᴏʀ 帝@feddit.uk
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    I’m not seeing any of that. Not saying it is a good or bad thing, just a thing. So OP has choices, perhaps going to a smaller instance will help as I assume lemmy.world’s “all” is probably quite the firehose of diverse content by now.

    • elkaki@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      It kind of fills all if you sort by new, especially if the biggest nsfw instances are not blocked by your instance…

      • 👽🍻👽@lemmy.world
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        Yep. OP is a mega douchenozzle but sorting by new does in fact show a lot of porn. I simply have anything marked as nsfw not show the thumbnail. Problem solved.