I have https://github.com/oobabooga/text-generation-webui for LMS and https://github.com/lllyasviel/stable-diffusion-webui-forge for stable diffusion models.

They just run on 8g vram so I turn one off to use the other, lol.

Both work well for my needs

Nice, started the repo and will check it out!

Calibre for ebook and digital comics collection, plex for movies/tv/music

Nginx as a reverse proxy in front of those for remote https access.

Yep

Im sticking with the fediverse.

Same