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  • DOJ does damage control as staffer admits Republicans will be redacted from Epstein files

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  • It’s already imploding. Let’s just implode faster. Push the reset button!

  • RFK Jr. and the White House buried a major study on alcohol and cancer. Here’s what it shows.

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  • Appreciate that. Counseling is my goal. Never happen, I’m a felon but dreams keep me straight

    Edit: spelling

  • RFK Jr. and the White House buried a major study on alcohol and cancer. Here’s what it shows.

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  • I have an ex-wife. She didn’t like me drinking either. We were married for 5 years, together for 7. She ultimately ended up cheating and we got divorced.

    Anyway, I was sober for the last 2 years of our relationship.

    She didn’t cheat because of my drinking. It was just a way out but I can tell you this… her as my wife, I should have just accommodated her wishes when it came to drinking from the get go.

    Ultimately I’m sober now and have been but that didn’t have anything to do with the divorce. I still got 50/50 custody because by the time the divorce happened I had been sober for two years and I quit cold turkey. Hardest thing I’ve done.

    If you’re drinking that little, there are non alcoholic 0.0 beers you could lean on and maybe ease the two of you.

    You still get the refreshing taste and she gets her peace of mind.

    I know. I was married too and you have your things and she has your things. You just have to decide if the minimal amount you’re already drinking is worth the altercations.

    It isn’t.

    I still get urges sometimes but it’s only when life really hands it to me. I still tell myself that all it’s gonna do is speed up the day and put me further behind n accounting for my responsibilities. Which is true. I binge today, I’m out for 2-3 days recouping just to get a right headspace and even then, with where I’m at, probably a month.

    My thinking gets to fucking out of whack after a day of drinking that I just can’t do it anymore if I want any control in my life.

    Stay in control. If you can’t not have those few beers, even if you feel entitled and it’s not a big deal… resentment can lead to the drinking.

    Just think about it. You’re entitled to your own decisions. It doesn’t sound like you’re on the same the level I ever was but it’s a battle I wouldn’t t fight with a spouse.

    It’s a battle I would’ve fought before they became my spouse.

  • RFK Jr. and the White House buried a major study on alcohol and cancer. Here’s what it shows.

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  • Sorry the answer wasn’t so concise. I was drunk everyday and learned to mask it. Some days I failed masking it or shorthanded how much I’d had to drink and it caught up with me.

    Have had MANY incidents that would keep the layperson up at night for the rest of their lives. I’m just built different.

    I’ve spent a collected 1 year in county jail. 6 months was the longest stretch. I’ve avoided prison but that 6 month stretch made me wish for prison.

    I’ll say my boredom now (when I drank it helped speed up the day, I just wanted the day to be over) is constructive. I’m playing piano and guitar again. I’m writing.

    Things still suck but I know they’ll suck whether sober or drunk so I just do sober. Saves me money

    Edit: also saves me from being alone. I’m in the greatest relationship and I can’t jeopardize that. It means more to me than being numb

  • US flight attendants push to be paid when planes aren’t in the air: ‘Most of our passengers have no idea’

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  • It’s sad because I was totally on board with all of the points the comment above you was making and then you said what you said…

    fuck the system!

    I’d be a dick at work too

  • US flight attendants push to be paid when planes aren’t in the air: ‘Most of our passengers have no idea’

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  • Or they only got paid for the seconds/minutes they were actively checking out a customer. This is insane

  • RFK Jr. and the White House buried a major study on alcohol and cancer. Here’s what it shows.

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  • It was different every day but the absolute minimum was a 6 pack. That was on a day I had things to do. If I had a day where I had obligations, I’d settle for a six pack with a 6%abv because I could regulate it by the hour because of my body weight.

    On average I was drinking a handle a day. Easy.

    On days I was trying to “regulate myself” I was still drinking 9%abv IPAs.

    Was in it.

    Edit: if you start hiding any of your drinking even in the slightest, it’s time for a life change. Also, all of the above was when I was in my early 30s. In my 20s, I was buying 30 packs of Busch daily

  • NSFW

    Reddit is purging, with great prejudice

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  • I know this comment has aged but I just wanted to come back and say, Reddit is worse now than when you made this comment.

    I spent the last 3 days on the site (in guest mode) and holy shit, the censorship is bonkers.

    Just comment on the posts here even if it is only 2-3 comments. Comment even if there’s no comments. Let’s build this shit up.

  • RFK Jr. and the White House buried a major study on alcohol and cancer. Here’s what it shows.

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  • My 20s and early thirties are a blur. 2009-2015 is pretty much completely missing from my memory. My 6 year binge (with my overall drinking) might have some presents for me in my future.

    I’ve been sober for 2 years but it does scare me that I already did the damage. Oh well I guess. At the time, it was my coping mechanism. I don’t have cravings anymore because now I can clearly see it as poison but the damage might already be done.

  • MTG warns Epstein clients she’ll ‘say every damn name’ on House floor as she tells sex abuse victims, ‘Give me a list’

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  • Absolutely. There’s still an agenda here. These Epstein list victims are an opportunity

  • MTG warns Epstein clients she’ll ‘say every damn name’ on House floor as she tells sex abuse victims, ‘Give me a list’

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  • …has joined forces with Democrats…

    lol okay. There’s still an agenda here

  • Unemployed workers outnumber available jobs for first time since 2021

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  • Hey look, I’m a statistic. Been looking for work since 2023

  • Musk says SpaceX will retire Dragon spacecraft amid bitter Trump dispute

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  • Gonna need a megathread for this fallout. They are at each other.

    -Calls for Impeachment

    -Decommissioning contracts

    -Naming in Epstein files

    -ICE rounding up musk

  • Day 323 of posting a Daily Screenshot from the games l've been playing

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  • They are completely different experiences. Eve online has a steep learning curve and is a player driven open world sandbox.

    I haven’t played stelaris but after a google comparison between Eve and stelaris, I want to try it.

    Eve online offers free to play now. They offer alpha accounts with the option to upgrade to omega whenever you want. I’m thinking about getting back with just an alpha account for frigate pvp.

  • Trump says it may be better to let Ukraine and Russia ‘fight for a while’

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  • I guess a decade isn’t quite a while yet

  • Day 323 of posting a Daily Screenshot from the games l've been playing

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  • Saw your first screenshot in the post and immediately thought Eve online.

    I haven’t thought about that game in a few years.

    I know that’s not what you’re playing but now I’m thinking about Eve again.

  • Karoline Levitt ditches religious necklace after Jon Stewart’s brutal joke: ‘Some sort of weird Pinocchio cross’

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  • That’s disgusting blasphemy and I’m not even religious. I get it though, he’s their god.

  • Reddit sues Anthropic, alleging its bots accessed Reddit more than 100,000 times since last July

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  • Same here. Oldest account was 12 years and I had 2 alts.

    Got permabanned on main but was still able to delete the account. Deleted my other 2 as well.

    I can still browse subs if I want to I just can’t interact. Browsing now doesn’t mean I’ve agreed to anything.

    Oh well, these are headaches I’ll never have to worry about

  • Reddit sues Anthropic, alleging its bots accessed Reddit more than 100,000 times since last July

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  • In their TOS, they own anything you post there. Didn’t they sell or scrape data of all its users in the recent past when they changed their TOS?

    They’re guilty of the same shit

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