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Cake day: June 29th, 2023

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  • Not having quick easy saves whenever it would be easy to do. There are times when it can’t be implemented for a good reason (a bad reason would be to make the game harder. sure ok but that’s such a boring way to do that) and it’s fine but i still might quit playing the game forever when i realize my cat launching herself on the keyboard somehow closed all my programs. there goes that whole pain in the ass boss fight.








  • Setting aside politics for a second, their size could prematurely erase any identity kbin was going to develop.

    I also think we need better mod tools before federating with big, active communities. And the ability to have someone take over magazines without active mods, so the little magazines getting by without them don’t just become spam havens for shitheads. Some of that should get added in the next big update.


  • It’s tough! The thought of non-existence used to terrify me. For years I clung to religious beliefs, which also terrified me. Eternal torture for nonbelief? Even worse than non-existence! If the religion I was taught was wrong, which was right?

    My brain would latch onto these questions and repeat in circles so I couldn’t sleep. I learned to distract myself with made up bedtime stories. I picked up rituals like prayer that I held onto for long after I stopped believing. The ritual was soothing. Slowly, that fear faded and I don’t pray anymore . I don’t fear a hell now, so it’s non-existence, like sleep, which doesn’t feel as frightening as it used to. Since they’s no reason and no purpose to anything, I don’t have to sacrifice myself to fit some role. There’s no great work I can do that will change this.

    I’m 40 and sitting here watching a friend play a videogame and petting my cat. I will hang out with my neice this week and play DnD on the weekend and the lack of meaning or purpose - this emptiness - relaxes me.

    What I mean is - take it slow. Don’t completely ignore the fear, but if it’s too much, find distractions ro reduce the pain. You wont come to the same conclusions I did, but if you try to take it slow, you might get to your own peace eventually. Maybe you’ll decide that doing good things brings you peace, or building a home you love or something.

    Practice slowly breathing, find distractions that genuinely work for you, and think about these things at times when you’re in an okay place - not the dead if night when they’re huge. If that doesn’t work or it’s never small enough to handle, try therapy.

    I hope you figure it out.