Would either Calckey or Misskey be a good fit for what you’re looking for?

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The URL for mod mail gives me this: /message/compose?to=/r/math.

If you’re unable to find an answer, you could resort to modmail to see if you can get a message (canned or otherwise) about their plans.

FYI, it’s a relative link so other users can follow the link from their home instance [Cat.](/c/catsstandingup@lemmy.world).

Cat.

Relative links seem to be the best way to accomplish what you’re looking to do. So, in your example, it’s /c/x@y.org.

Doing it live

Reference: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/6063