It’s not the kids, not the lurkers, not the mods… y’all just nice people. Lemmy’s got a good vibe going… or at least enough windows that we can close if the vibe gets shit.

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    1 year ago

    I think it’s just survivorship bias, kinda like mastodon. The people inclined to come here are probably anti-corporate, and sick of current social media’s bullshit.

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      I think the barrier to entry also helps a bit. The folks willing to put up with the rough edges that Lemmy has are also likely willing to participate with the intent of making Lemmy a success rather than just “hangers on” as it were. With a 1600% growth in “active” user population, there are definitely a ton of lurkers, yet. Once it becomes more approachable, we’ll see if the community feeling that Lemmy has begins to tarnish and fade as the volume of interaction and content rises.

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        I have been thinking this over the past week on reddit every time I see a “Lemmy/Kbin needs to sort out X, Y and Z otherwise it’s going to fail massively.” or “Lemmy/Kbin is impossibly hard to use/sign up for”. Usually with CAPITAL LETTERS and emojis.

        Like… ok. I don’t think you’ll be missed with that attitude. At least for the time being.

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    1 year ago

    I know what you mean, it feels like we’re all on an adventure together to discover what the new front page of the internet will be!

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    All I can picture for lemmy users right now is an excited dog at a dog park that is just loving life and wants to say high to every other dog and is wagging his tail so hard that his whole ass is wagging.

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    In Italy we call it “mountain path behavior”: just like in our mountain paths, as long as it is few people you meet you behave cordially and in a friendly manner, but it changes when the number of people goes up.

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    Reddit is too popular and has too much group think, too many of the same types of comments that will get a lot karma, and too many comments that will just be ignored.

    NEW is a garbage dump or a pile of duplicates. So why comment on a new post? It will never go anywhere. HOT is already full of comments, so your comment will just be lost.

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    It reminds me of internet forums of the days of yore that are long gone. People answering each other’s questions. No need for moderators to have rules like, “don’t call each other names” blah blah blah. It’s kind of funny, but you know, the Internet had a dark age when everyone was nicer to each other. Lemmy brings that kind of social interaction back to the fore. In another stream, someone disagreed with me and did it nicely and I learned something. Give me more of THIS. And give me less of people replying with “this”

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    1 year ago

    I guess you could say the particular reason Lemmy is so good right now is the friends we made along the way

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    I can’t speak for everyone. I’ve been lurking for the past couple weeks and just signed up yesterday. The prevailing attitude I’ve noticed is that people realize just how much of a toxic hog lagoon reddit has become, and are glad to participate in a community that isn’t. It’s nice to be somewhere that isn’t full of bots and doesn’t coddle nazis.

    I also think it helps that most of the onboarding literature is frontloaded with “this is how federation works” instead of jumping right in to “here’s how you sign up and use lemmy.” Effectively scares off the reading-averse.

    If considering that to be a plus makes me an elitist, I’m ok with that.

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      It’s nice to be somewhere that isn’t full of bots and doesn’t coddle nazis

      Depends on instance…

      My last one wouldn’t defederate from a shitshow instance full of transphobia, threats of violence, and basically anything else you’d see on 4chan.

      Apparently all that was just a “difference of opinions” so my old instance said it was fine.

      The problematic instance also had a lot of posts shitting on this one for defederating them, so I just signed up a new account here.

      I think that’s the best part of Lemmy, it’s easy to just drop an instance and find another that aligns more with what you want out of it.

      A decade from now if the biggest instance pulls a spez, everyone would just move to a new instance